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Colleen's avatar

I understand the ups and downs. I was by my mom’s side through 3 years of seizures and strokes which slowly took her from us. In the last few months it was like having a stranger in the house. The seizures and strokes had rewired her brain and took who she was from us. I commend you and your wife.

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Ryan Winfield's avatar

Thanks, Colleen. It's a very strange thing to experience, as you know. Sorry about your mom.

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S Max's avatar

Health is wealth. After years of caring for my mother who suffered from vascular dementia, I know how precious life is and how each and every day of sound mind and body is priceless.

My sponsor of many years would say “if it’s not money, health or relationships, it’s a good day-enjoy it!” Which I have found to be so true.

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Ryan Winfield's avatar

True, true. And it's a good day!

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DC's avatar

Very well done sir, I know the story and still found it intriguing. I hope you guys feel better and yes the junk is going around. Nice to have it justified that we need to live life for the day and for each other. We shouldn’t wait to use our second chances. Love ya brother!

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Ryan Winfield's avatar

I agree. Never wait! Feeling better over here.

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Laura's avatar

Again , great thoughts of your bother-in-law. Being a caregiver I havec experienced all these feelings you described. We love our jobs , so thank you for the kind words, and have been told it is a great and honorable calling to be there for our elderly and our veterans. Yes it also opens our eyes and minds to another level of thinking , emotion and caring.

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Ryan Winfield's avatar

It is indeed an honorable calling. I admire you for answering it. Thanks for what you do. And thanks for reading my work.

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Martha Helms's avatar

I pray for health to return to your house. Life is mysterious and wonderful. I love the sharing of your life.

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Ryan Winfield's avatar

Thanks, Martha. We all woke up feeling a bit better. And yes, life is wondrous.

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R. Z. Halleson's avatar

Thanks for this. I ordered the book you recommended.

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Ryan Winfield's avatar

Oh good! I hope you enjoy it.

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J. M. Elliott's avatar

most of us are indeed very lucky. and he's lucky to have you both. hope you're feeling better soon :-)

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Ryan Winfield's avatar

Thanks, J.M. I think the worst is behind me.

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Elle Griffin's avatar

Whoa what a story! Existence is so mysterious. 😶‍🌫️

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Ryan Winfield's avatar

Indeed it is!

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C. Deanne Rowe's avatar

Very interesting story. Thank you for sharing. I hope you are feeling better. Our minds are an amazing thing.

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Ryan Winfield's avatar

Thanks, Deanne. Feeling better this morning.

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Ruby Norwood's avatar

What a sad interesting story, pray that he is much better, So glad he gave you the ok, to share his story.. the story is like your books once you start reading it, I can’t stop..

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Ryan Winfield's avatar

Thank you, Ruby. That's so kind of you to write.

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DeVonna Stephens's avatar

I hope you are all feeling better soon.

The mind is definitely an interesting place. It is so sad but also very interesting to read about your brother-in-law and glimpses of his recovery. Please thank him for allowing you to share this with us.

Be well.

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Ryan Winfield's avatar

Thanks, DeVonna. Feeling a bit better this morning. I'll thank Anthony for you.

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Amanda's avatar

I love what you write. Your comments, yr sense of humor, everything!

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Ryan Winfield's avatar

Thank you, Amanda. Your comment is the best medicine.

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